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Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Ask a Teacher: What's the deal with summer reading?

The school year is still underway for much of the country, but most schools and teachers are beginning to plan for next year. For a lot of students, that means it's time to think about summer reading. With the looming worry of summer work, some parents want to know what's the deal with summer reading? Is it beneficial? Do we even have to do it?

Overall, summer reading is a benefit to most students. Over summer, many students experience a learning loss as they don't use skills they were previously practicing daily. For students who are already struggling with reading, these losses can set students back even further. By encouraging students to continue reading over the summer, basic reading skills like inferencing can be practiced at home.

It's important for summer reading assignments to be age appropriate and as stress-free as possible for both parents and kids. If the assigned program is beginning to make your child say things like "I hate reading" it might be time to take a step back. Summer reading should involve a lot of choice for students at every age. The goal is to keep students reading and interested in reading. If your child only wants to read informational books, let them. Summer reading can help build a love of reading in your child.

As students get older, they should be assigned to read less books. The idea in the younger grades is that you are reading with your child. As kids get older, they should read more independently and read longer texts. Asking for a small project over summer is fine, but if it's taking more than a few days to complete, again it might be time to take a step back.

Be open and honest with your child's teacher when you return from summer. If you didn't read the number of books you were supposed to, don't lie about it. Talk to the teacher and explain that your child was struggling and beginning to dislike reading, so you took a step back. Openly lying doesn't alert your child's teacher to information that could possibly help your child during the school year. Also, if your child knows that you lied to their teacher, that can undermine the teacher.

Try not to stress about summer reading. It is only meant to benefit your child and shouldn't be seen as a major assessment of your child's skills or your parenting. Remember to utilize the library as often as possible and let your child lead the way in their reading interests.


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Emilie is a high school English teacher with two children. She holds a Bachelors in English and a Masters in Secondary Education. After completing student teaching at an urban, Persistently Low Achieving (PLA) school, she was placed at another PLA school in the same school district. Her Ask a Teacher column can also be found over at Teaching Ain't for Heroes.






Monday, February 9, 2015

Ask a Teacher: What do reading levels mean?

Reading levels are a huge issue. There's all kinds of ways to assign a level to reading from Lexile to grade level. Most of them are an attempt to make an objective measure of a wildly ranging ability. Many parents are interested in finding their children's reading level then want to find the "2nd grade books" or similar at the library to give their kids books that are on their level.

The first thing I'll tell you is to try not to focus on the reading level. Within reason, of course. Don't go out and buy Crime and Punishment for your kindergartener. When your child brings you a book at the store or the library, don't discourage them by telling them it's the wrong level. For fun, at home reading shouldn't be forced into fitting a certain level.

If the book is "too easy" it might just be on a topic your child enjoys. Just because it's a breeze for them to read doesn't mean that they aren't benefiting just from the act of reading for enjoyment. If the book is "too hard" this is a great time for you and your child to work together to read the book.

Reading levels can tell you a lot, but they can't tell you how much your child enjoys reading. Never be discouraged by a "low" reading level score. Maybe your child was having an off day or they were otherwise distracted during the test. Pay attention to what your child can tell you about the book they are reading for fun rather than what an arbitrary test says they might be able to tell you.

If you are worried about your child's reading, the best thing you can do is expose your child to as many books as possible. As a parent, modeling your own reading is a great way to encourage your child to read. Reading aloud to your child, even after they are able to read on their own, is also beneficial. Try to keep it as fun as possible and not a chore. It may take some time to figure out the best books that work for your child which is why the library is an excellent resource for readers of all levels.





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Emilie is a high school English teacher with two children. She holds a Bachelors in English and a Masters in Secondary Education. After completing student teaching at an urban, Persistently Low Achieving (PLA) school, she was placed at another PLA school in the same school district. Her Ask a Teacher column can also be found over at Teaching Ain't for Heroes.





Saturday, July 26, 2014

Kindergarten Kids - Helping Them Read

Problem: 

My kids love to read. Kindergarten helped prepare them for sounding out words that make sense and follow the rules, and it gave them a list of "sight words" to memorize, so they have a good base, at this point, when they pick up one of their books.

But the English language is cruel and makes no sense, and this has never been clearer than now, when I have to explain to a five-year-old why sometimes the OU makes an oww sound and sometimes it makes an oh sound and sometimes it makes an ooooui sound. Or however you would type out the sound made in would, or should or could. And for that matter, what about wood? Or though and rough. WHAT IS GOING ON.

Solution:

When my kids first start the book, I have them think about it, and use context and picture cues. "What do you think this word is? It's a weird one!"

They can do this for about the first ten minutes of reading.

After that, I give them hints. "In this word the ea together make an eee sound. Can you sound it out now?"

That gets us through the next 20 minutes.

After that, they're pretty tired, and a bit frustrated (and they're pretty good readers if I do say so myself, but it is frustrating. The language is frustrating.) Anyway, after they're tired but still reading, I just give them the word.

Them: "read, read, read, read, read...what's this word?"
Me: "That's machine."


This way, they practice, but they don't get annoyed enough to put the book down. It's working well so far.





 

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Moment of the Week - 138: "Reading"

Some kids can already read. Mine are interested by not quite there yet. They're working on it. For now, they "read" the pictures, and make up stories for each other.








 

Friday, July 6, 2012

Who Is the Romance Audience?

Wrote over on the book and author blog today about readers and judgement. Why the hate for genre fiction?
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Is there such a thing as too intelligent?

Signs point to yes, at least when it comes to romance.

I recently got a work back, and the editor mentioned that my writing bent toward literary and the piece may be too intelligent for readers. Romance readers are looking for more fun, more fluff, she says.

First, have you read me? I am no Proust, that's for sure. It won't take much for me to 'dumb down' a manuscript. Change a word here, lift the mood there, take out the some of the anger and true-to-life emotion, and you've got a ready-to-read romance.

But does it need to be this way? Romance readers and writers face a huge stigma in our society. They're looked at as less than, sometimes, and for what? Because they like to read or write as an escape? Because they prefer topics that are fun for them? Because they don't trouble themselves by dealing with heavy topics all the time? Is that so bad?

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Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Author Interview: Vanessa Morgan (A Good Man)

Vanessa Morgan smashes the horror world with her newest release, A Good Man. The screenplay is already making waves, and is currently in production, so far as I know.

I was lucky enough to grab Vanessa for an interview about this, her third work.






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First...the blurb!

A Good Man (screenplay)



Do you like Dexter and American Psycho? Then chances are you will love A Good Man.

Louis Caron is a good man – he's a vegetarian, feeds homeless people, takes care of animals and is converned with the ecological well-being of the planet. But his altruism has a sinister edge – he's a vampire and local detective Taglioni becomes increasingly suspicious of him. Louis' attempt to escape the police will take him on a journey into his own private hell where he is not only forced to confront his worst fears, but where he will also destroy the lives of those he cares about.


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Sunday, February 19, 2012

Moment of the Week - 80: Daddy Reads Madeline

My husband reads the girls a story before bed. With help from the girls, of course.



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Thursday, September 1, 2011

Nap Time? Read a Book.

So many times we complain that we are losing ourselves. As parents, our journey through the toddler years is intense and it can seem as if we'll never make it through. The days fly by but the hours drag out. "Yes, let's play ball." "No, stop pulling your sister's hair." "For the last time, I said no videos." "What? Not the wall! Play with the chalk outside." "No, mommy is too big to be a princess." "WILL YOU PLEASE STOP YELLING."

And on and on.

We cook and clean and talk to babies all day, and I, for one, can say that sometimes my brain just mushifies. When the kids finally and blissfully sink into sleep in the middle of the day, I have more chores to do, more work, more errands.

Stop.

Maybe, every once in a while...maybe once or twice a week, let's say, break out a book. An hour or two twice a week is not a huge chunk of time, and trust me, the dishes will keep. We talk over and over again about how important it is to get your children reading early, enjoying books and literature and the sounds of words at a young age, but what about ourselves? Shouldn't we also exercise our brains just a bit, every once in a while?

A book is silent. It won't disrupt nap like dishes or vacuuming or the television, and let's face it, a book can transport you to a world without those dishes, without that laundry, without the whining. Don't we all deserve a break?

I'm not saying to break out that dusty copy of Proust, or attempt to dip into Henry James or James Joyce, mind you. An hour of that will most likely (unless you're much more clever than I am) serve only to frustrate you. There's nothing wrong with an easy read here and there. We're no longer liberal college students who need to impress our peers with our literary tastes. We're in the comfort of our own homes with no one but a few toddlers who can't tell on us to see.

Even still, you may not want to reach for that tawdry romance with the Fabio look-a-like on the cover (or maybe you do, like I said, no judging here.) But just because you're not looking for erotica, doesn't mean a little romance now and then wouldn't be nice.

Take Saints and Sinners for example. Set in Arizona just after Mexico ceded the land to the United States, Tatiana March's book is, indeed, a romance. It centers around the usual unlikely pairing between boy and girl each with their quirks and background foibles. But it's different.

The language is compelling without being difficult to follow. The sentences are structured to bring out heightened emotions without belittling the reader's intelligence. Plots and subplots are woven in gently, so that when the climax (and the literal climax) occur, it doesn't feel as if the story were only there to provide us a sex scene. It's a natural occurrence, one that feels right and one that does not take away from the historical knowledge the book possesses or the character-driven plot.

In Saints and Sinners, you get a real feeling for what life was like for people in a small town in a formerly Mexican territory, whether those people be swindlers, oppressed women, immigrants, cooks, widows or dancing girls. You get the whole picture, full of rich scenery that brings a new world to life.

It's the perfect easy read, basically designed to get you out of the humdrum without leaving you feeling as if you've wasted important chore-doing time on something completely frivolous.

If you're looking to get back into reading again (which I strongly feel parents should) or if you've never left your reading habit but are looking for a new line of writing to freshen up your library, I really recommend this book.



The author is not new to the scene and has several books published through houses, but this one she decided to publish herself. What makes that so spectacular is that it means the work goes for just a dollar. Instead of having to divvy fees up between the house, the author and the editors, the book's proceeds go where they belong and we all get the pleasure of it for a fraction of the cost.

Check it out. She does a better job of summarizing it than I do.

Anyway, enough blathering. Whatever book you choose, choose a book. You can DVR Teen Mom for later, right?

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Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Guest Post - Mama, Will you Read Me a Story?

Today's guest blog comes from Sascha Fink, regular contributor to The Past and Future Tense, The Blog of Preterite. She is the mother of two girls, one in elementary school and one almost an adult. Her family reads regularly, and here's how she got them into the habit. Great tips on making reading fun and rewarding for life.

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I have two lovely daughters; an incredibly animated seven year old and a spunky 20 years old.  What makes them special to me, besides being the loves of my life, is they have followed my lead and found a passion for reading.  I have piles of paperbacks and hardcovers in my hallway, stacks on my dining room table and the window sill of my bathroom.  As an English major this is what I consider an occupational hazard.  I had always hoped that this kind of exposure would encourage my girls to read. Seeing books everywhere they turn has a moderate influence. As much of an influence the presence of books is,  I am and have been the primary influence on both of my children’s road to reading fluency by reading to them and eventually allowing them to read to me.  (This piece primarily focuses on my seven year old, as my oldest daughter has left the nest…taking with her several heavy boxes of books)

Oral reading through history has been vital to the evolution of society.  It was first and foremost a means of enculturation.  The cultures, belief, folktales, laws and mores of a society were passed to each generation through the stories that were told.  Myths, as they are properly defined as sacred stories, transferred the ideas of religion, spirituality and the knowledge of the natural world.  Oral stories and teachings also taught the younger generation about their own family history.  Even when stories began to be written down on paper, oral storytelling did not end.  Literacy was not commonplace. Even though moveable type had been innovated in the 15th century making books easier to obtain, it wasn’t until the Industrial Revolution of the mid-19th Century that books were cheap enough for lower classes to purchase.  Even with the advent of affordable books many were still illiterate and stories were often read orally so that many could enjoy them.

Oral reading was very popular in Victorian times.  Author Margaret Atwood says, in her essay Reading Blind published in “Moving Targets: Writing with Intent” in 1989, that the reading world was done a great disservice by the abolition of oral reading both in the home and in the schools.  She goes on to say that when stories are read aloud the reader provides the audience with flow of story and flow of voice.  Silent reading is important, of course, but oral reading helps the young reader learn how to read.  As Atwood goes on to say, “We’ve led them [new readers, children] to believe that prose comes in visual blocks, not in rhythms and cadences; that its texture should be flat because the page is flat.”

There are methods to achieving reading fluency.  The first method is modeling.  As a parent it’s important to be a good model for your child.  I always tell people to let your child see you read a book.  They don’t need to hear your story but they need to see you sitting down turning pages and appearing engrossed in something other than the computer or the television.  Children model the behavior of their parents and other adults that are close to them.  I have seen this behavior in my own child.  I nursed my seven year old.  I nursed my 20 year old.  Almost every friend I have has been or is a nursing mother.  I don’t ask them to cover up or nurse in another room when my daughter is present.  My seven year old was given a baby doll when she was three.  It came with a bottle.  I encouraged my daughter to feed her baby assuming she would pick up the bottle. She pulled up her shirt and put the baby to her precious little body.  I was amazed and then remembered, she had never actually seen anyone use a bottle before.  We were her model for action and behavior.

Modeling should be strong at home.  Think of it as assisted homeschooling for beginner readers.  In school, most often oral reading is done by students and as a parent you can’t guarantee that the student reading will be a good model.  If you have a good teacher he or she will read orally during some sort of story time.  Hopefully he or she will read aloud for as many subjects as possible.  Unfortunately when oral reading is requested of each student during reading periods, your child might have more exposure to the poorer readers in her class than to their fluent teacher.  Reinforcing good oral fluency at home is key.  She has to be able to determine which is correct.

When children are able to sit still for just ten minutes you begin to read to them orally.  This happens as early as one or two; perhaps the average being around three.  This is another early step toward reading fluency.  Fluent silent reading is a direct result of oral fluency.  When hearing a parent read, even the simplest of stories, the child begins to learn inflection, dialogue, proper flow and cadence, proper punctuation pauses and every other reading technique that increases comprehension. Early readers often ignore end punctuation continuing on to the next sentence.  While this is a typical early reader mistake, its source is lessened a bit if you allow your very young pre-reader to read along with you as you point to the words.  They will begin to notice that a (.) means “stop.”  They will learn that a (“) means someone is talking.  They will learn to recognize that a (,) means “pause.”  They won’t know what the symbols are called or what their technical uses are but they will begin to match them with actions.

Dialogue is something parents should pay particular attention to.  You must set it apart from the story to make meaning.  Read the following statement without quotations or punctuation other than a period: I like to eat pie.  He took the pie from the shelf and cut a slice.  That was good he said. No one can deny that it takes effort to read that sentence with any sort of involvement; especially if you’re reading to a three year old.  Now put a little life into it.  “I like to eat pie!”  He took the pie from the shelf and cut a slice. “That was good!” he said.  It’s just a little better.  Now give the dialogue a voice other than your reading voice, say it a bit louder, and make a funny face when you read it!  I can imagine some sort of Sesame Street Muppet voice.  I can guarantee you will have a child whose eyes open just a little wider when you read that particular line in that manner.

The second method to oral fluency is repetition.  Read that story over and over and over again if they want you to.  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve read “There’s a Wocket in my Pocket” by Dr. Seuss.  I know that there is a Zofa on the sofa and that there are Ghairs under the chair.  I’m well aware of the Yeps on the steps and the Yottle in the bottle (and I’m reciting this from memory even though I haven’t read it, thank goodness, since we moved on to The Magic Tree House and The Weather Fairies).

Encourage your child to summarize each section as you read it, or in the case of longer book, what happened when you left off.  Reading fluency matters little if there is no memory or comprehension of the story.  When your child is old enough to read on their own, have them repeat sentences when they have trouble with the flow.  If they miss a break, point it out and make them read the sentence correctly by asking them to “try it again and remember a period means to stop.”  If need be, read the sentence to them and slightly exaggerate the pause and proper inflection.  Be very aware of accuracy and self-correction.  If your child is reading inaccurately, give them a moment to see if they self-correct (this is a very important skill) and if they don’t, gently correct them and ask them to read the passages again.  Encourage your child to stop if they are unsure of a word and either ask you for a definition or help with pronunciation.  Don’t just pronounce the word.  Let them do it.  Break the word into syllable with your finger covering the next section of the word.  If the definition or explanation of the word is in the next sentence, ask them to read on.  Learning to use context to define words is important.

A third method is choral reading.  This is reading the words together aloud.  Best done with simple stories, it allows your child to follow your tone, inflection and enthusiasm. Imagine that you are teaching a child how to draw a horse by putting their tiny hand on yours while you move your pencil about the paper.  They might not be able to draw a horse to perfection for some time but they will always try to model the movements they felt while your hand moved along the paper.

Reading with passion is perhaps the most important aspect of oral reading.  You can work through a storybook line by line by line by line quickly.  If it’s obvious to the child that you are trying to blow through the pages so you can get them to go to bed, it’s a wasted experience.  In the beginning choose books that you like.  It’s not particularly hard to go to the children’s section of the library and find something that interests you.  A personal interest for tigers can lead you to several fiction and non-fiction books in which tigers are featured.  If you like the book you’re more liable to bring your love into the story.

Right now I’m reading “The Hobbit” to my seven year old.  The world of “The Lord of the Rings” is very important to me.  I do a fairly good Gandalf and a pleasing Bilbo but my dwarves need a little work.  I have a fair singing voice so I put a little music into Tolkien’s song lyrics.  I’m trying to read it the way I imagine it was written to be read.  If you are reading books slightly above a child’s comprehension level make sure to adjust.  I change British words to English words when necessary and when Thorin Oakenshield begins a fairly long diatribe about the loss of his people’s gold (yet again), I paraphrase.  I’m bringing it down to an understandable level without losing the zest of the story.  I can’t wait to see what she thinks when I bring in a replica of Gimli’s ax as a prop as I begin the Battle of the Five Armies.  Show them passion and they will develop passion.  They will want an Alice In Wonderland birthday party because you just finished reading it.  They will be desperate to attend the Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire midnight book release in costume (my daughter’s boyfriend…shown in the middle…won first prize in the costume contest as Snape and she and her best friend on the right were Death Eaters).  They will find joy and happiness with the world of books.


My seven year old's "Alice in Wonderland" costume birthday party. She was Alice, of course.

When they grow a little older let them choose the book.  My daughter loves cats.  No, I mean she really loves cats.  She had drawn no less than five thousand seven hundred and eighty two pictures of various breeds of cats in every possible setting and activity.  She will tell every stranger she meets that cheetahs are different from other cats because they can’t retract their claws.  She tells the librarian that they need to get more books on cats because she’s read most of the ones on the shelf.  She helps me volunteer at a cat shelter and is quick to point out all of her cat knowledge to perspective adoptive parents.  If your child has a similar, seemingly obsessive interest, go with it…all the way to the end.  My daughter will find another obsession at some point (we’ve already been through dinosaurs, cobras, vampires and werewolves) and I’ll let her take me as far as she wants again no matter how tedious it might seem. Did you know that when a cobra opens its hood it’s actually spreading ribs apart to make itself appear larger and more aggressive with the intention of warding off an attacker? It’s probably more frightened than you are and will only strike when it absolutely has to (I’m not sure I want to test that theory). I didn’t know that until my daughter brought home a book and read the page to me three times in the first sitting.

The most important thing for a parent to do is avoid frustration.  Don’t give your child a book that is too hard unless you are reading it to them (and remember to paraphrase if necessary or change single words for easier comprehension…your child might not know what a loo is).  If they are reading to you keep the book just a half a step above their current level.  Look for books where your child will have to manage through only a few correctable mistakes.  If they can’t understand the story or are stumbling on every other word it’s too hard.  Either read it to them save it for them to read when they are more fluent on that level.  If a child can read a story to the point of memorization, it’s time to get a slightly harder (or at least a different) book.

As the parent of a school aged child, in this day and age of tests, labels, and processes, you’ll most likely hear a plethora of dollar words such as aligned materials, chunking, co-articulation, scaffolding, consolidated alphabetic, morphemic analysis, independent-instructional reading level range and Frayer Model.  I’m not telling you to ignore all these technical terms…wait, yes I am.  I was a reading specialist for lower level sixth graders and what I learned was scaffolding meant nothing more than the different ways you guide a student to the correct answer.  We talked a lot about there here and not once did I use the fancy word.  There’s no harm in learning what these terms mean if you want to and/or if they are pointed out to you via a teacher, but if you’re just trying to instill a love of reading skip the textbook words.

Both of my daughters grew up with higher than normal reading levels for the majority of the children in their age group.  My almost second grade seven year old reads at a mid-third grade level.  It took some time but we just finished reading The Lady of Shallott by T.S. Eliot in its entirety.  She wants a mirror in her room so she can look outside her window without breaking a curse. My older daughter read “The Lord of the Rings” when she was eleven years old (the same age I did).  I never used one single fancy word or fancy technique.

All I did was the things outlined in this post.

Reading matters. Reading well matters.  People who can read orally are more well-spoken and more confident than the average person and have a greater chance at college which in turn leads to better jobs.  Reading well results in the ability to write and express oneself properly. Writers with oral reading fluency are more apt to read their work aloud and catch errors, poor flow, incomplete ideas or bad word choice.  If it sounds bad there might be problems with the way it has been set to paper.  Reading well encourages creativity, imagination, discovery, and language skills.  Reading orally develops listening skills.  Most important of all, reading with your child creates a loving relationship of respect and affection.  Mommy?  Will you read me a story?  I will.  Every single time you ask me.  I will even when you don’t ask me.



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Sunday, July 31, 2011

Moment of the Week - 52: Read, Always Read

Read first thing in the morning.


Read last thing at night. (Okay, unless you're posing for a picture.)



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Sunday, July 17, 2011

Moment of the Week - 50: Chicka Chicka

My kids are "reading" more and more.








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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

A Barefoot (Books!) Summer - Guest Blog

Samantha Williams is a talented cook, wonderful mother and avid reader. She combines all three every day and was gracious enough to write a post for me highlighting her latest project: Barefoot Books. She blogs her magnificent meals over at Heartshaped Leaves.

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First I want to offer a huge thank you to Darlena for giving me the opportunity to spread the word about Barefoot Books.

Barefoot Books is an amazing company that offers books to children that inspire creativity, encourage imagination and foster a love of the earth and diversity. Plus they do all that without relying on mainstream characters, which to me is a huge plus. The books are incredibly well illustrated and even more so they are well written.

Barefoot Books operates on five core values: Imagine, Explore, Create, Connect, Give Back.

Imagine
We offer books that are an authentic alternative to the commercialization of childhood. We encourage children to make time for make-believe, let their imaginations run wild and free, while never forgetting that childhood is a time for fun.

Explore
We help children explore other cultures, our planet, and themselves, providing them with ways to follow their imaginations on extraordinary journeys, both inner and outer.

Create
We believe that books with beautiful art and meaningful stories respect the innate wisdom of children and have the power to nourish the creative spark in everyone.

Connect
We are committed to using story to create deep and lasting connections—whether it’s a child and parent connecting over a book; a child connecting to the universal wisdom of other cultures; or a broad network of people connecting through shared values and the desire to help children become happy, engaged members of a global community.

Give Back
We support organizations that share our goals of global understanding, empowering children through art and story, and protecting and preserving the earth for future generations.

The month of July is an especially good month to support Barefoot Books. Our summer sale starts on July 15th and runs until August 15th. Our summer sale covers bestsellers and limited collectibles.
Also for every Bear's Birthday book purchased between July 1st and July 31st, Barefoot Books will donate a new book to the charity Birthday Wishes. Birthday Wishes brings birthday parties to homeless children, founded on the belief that everyone should have a birthday celebration.

I personally love the books because they really do get my son excited about reading. As soon as he sees me pull up the Barefoot Books website, he is in my lap telling me which book he wants. Not to mention he loves getting the books in the mail too, I mean what little kid doesn't like receiving mail?

But Barefoot Books isn't all books, we also offer puppets, puzzles, silk dress up skirts, and activity cards, there really is something to be found for everyone.

A few of our favorites are:

I dreamt I was a Dinosaur













 Life on Earth matching game












Yoga Pretzels













I do hope you will at least take a moment to browse our fantastic selection of books by visiting my marketplace: Barefoot Books.


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I am Samantha, a 26 year old stay at home mom to a three year old named Jack. I am married to the Army, I mean my husband serves in the Army. Our family is expecting a little girl around July 11th and we are all very excited. Well I am excited, I think the others are too. ;)

Let's see, what else, if you visit my blog you will find posts about food and food photography, I like cooking and taking pictures of the food I make. I also believe that reading is something every child should experience from an early age, this is why I joined Barefoot Books as an ambassador. and why I am now writing a mini bio about myself for this guest blog spot about Barefoot Books, enjoy!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Overcoming Inertia

Get up.  I'm serious, get up right now.  Or, maybe after you finish reading this blog, but certainly after you check your email - wait, what's the New York Times' top story today?  And didn't you want to check that diaper post on that forum?  Plus, there's facebook to update.

The internet is fantastic; it puts the world at your fingertips.  The internet is awful; you never have to move again.  An object at rest stays at rest.  We must strive to overcome this inertia.

As I type this, my babies are playing in the living room.  I could be playing with them.  I could be making breakfast.  I am at my computer.  Through experience, though, I know the pitfalls, and I will not stay here to check my email, or read the paper, or check a forum.  If I spend too long at my computer, I turn to sludge.  I can feel it - my life force seeping out of me and into this chair I'm sitting on.

We must get up.  We must do things.  I, for one, know I feel better if I do.  But knowing I feel better, and having the strength to actually move from this desk are two different things.

You would think toddlers make this easier.  They are always on the move, it seems.  Even a movie on television cannot stop them for long.  Unfortunately, I've found, they don't make moving easier: in fact, they make it harder.

If your kids are in a bad mood, you don't want to take them out.  What if it gets worse?  What if they embarrass you in public?  A change of scenery may help, but if they're cranky, they won't calm down long enough for you to even explain to them that you're going somewhere.  May as well just leave them be to get over this spell of animosity.

If your kids are in a good mood, you don't want to take them out.  The change of scenery might set them off.  Right here, right now, there is such a good balance.  They're happy and chipper; why would you take a chance and end this rare bout of contentedness?

It just seems easier to stay.  And it might be, in the short term.  But if you could only overcome this inertia and try to get them out of the house, if only for a walk to the trash cans, you'd be amazed at the difference in the day.  It's actually less effort to handle toddlers if you give them a few different experiences to mull over in their quiet time.  Toddlers cooped up inside, playing by themselves, eventually (and sometimes immediately) turn sour.  Then, the energy you could have been spending on an outing, you now are forced to spend appeasing them, stopping tantrums.  Everybody loses.

Of course, getting up is not as easy as I've made it sound.  Sometimes, it just feels impossible, especially if you are ill, or pregnant, or alone, or sad.  But it can be done.  On the bad days, if you can even fake overcoming your apathy for a few minutes, it will be easier to fake the next day, and the third.  By the fourth day, it will be part of your routine.

I try to schedule at least one outing with the twins a day.  And it is hard.  We don't always make my goal.  Some days, I need to just stay home and sludge through the day until I can toss the babies and myself into bed.  But I've noticed that we all feel better if we do at least one thing, have at least one adventure together.  Even though it feels like far too much work for far too little gain each morning as I sip my coffee and they watch Dora.

You don't have to be a superstar.  If you don't get the kids out and about, you didn't fail.  There's always tomorrow, after all.  Each day a new chance, and each day more love from your children, as difficult as they may be.  Start slowly.  Read them a book in the living room.  Tomorrow, maybe, take them out to play in the back yard.  If you're feeling up to it, try a short walk.  If not, you didn't fail.  Read them another book.  It won't take long.  Just a few minutes of interaction, and you may find yourself feeling better.  Just a few minutes of interaction, and your kids may be good to play on their own for another hour or so. 

It's not easy, and if you spend your days at the computer, you are far from alone.  It doesn't make you a bad parent.  It makes you a tired parent.  It makes you a normal parent.

Still, maybe you could try it, today.  Maybe right now, you could get up.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Don't Mention It

Reading is a magical skill that transports you anywhere you want to go.  The younger children begin to understand the joy of reading, the better, in my opinion.  Many parents have worked reading into their various baby routines, and, in my house, we read two stories before naptime and many other throughout the day.

Some children's books are great in that they teach kids simple concepts and connect those concepts to others.  For instance, children's books are fantastic at showing kids that an object can have a color and still be defined as that object.  "Red shirt, yellow shirt, green shirt, oops!" as the Sandra Boynton book goes.  Those simple words combined with the pictures teach children what a shirt is, that shirts can be different colors and still be shirts, what four different types of animals look like (elephant, bear, moose and turkey), and that a shirt can be put on wrong (if you're a turkey).



But this beloved book has one fatal flaw.  The objects it mentions in two dimensions quickly become objects of desire to my babies in their three-dimensional form.  And sometimes those objects are not readily available or cause too much excitement pre-nap - shoes and hats, particularly.  The mere mention of shoes or hats, or even passing images of them, can turn calm reading time into a frenzied game of get-the-baby-exactly-what-she-wants-right-this-instant.  I combat this best I can, usually by flipping the page, but their minds are no longer in a soothed state, and pictures of ducks, water, beaches, coats, bicycles, keys, anything really, can set naptime back a good half hour.

The best baby books to read before naptime are those that contain objects toddlers like, but have never had or seen.  Trains are a great example for us.  My babies babble in delight at the picture of a train, make the choo choo sound and happily move on as they have no idea that a train actually exists in three dimensions.

Another good baby book before bedtime is a potty training book.  If my toddlers get excited and want the potty, that's great.  If they remain calm and don't want the potty, that's also great.

Thankfully, even the books that contain tantalizing images of pots and pans and spoons and bubbles usually center around one theme - eventually the main characters go to sleep.  This is a genius move on the part of children book writers, and I can never thank them enough.  I am always relieved to get to the last page and see the words "good night."  It makes my transition seamless, and the babies think that their going to bed is natural because that's what happened in the book.  Thank you, writers of children's books for knowing children.  Now if you could only find a way to write only about trains and potties.

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