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Friday, January 12, 2018

7 Strategies to Resolving Your Child Custody Issues Amicably - s post

Child custody is a challenging part of the divorce process as you need to shuffle children from house to house, coordinate schedules and divide the holidays fairly. It can be even more difficult if you’re ending a marriage on bad terms. But based on studies, shared custody works the best when each parent cooperates and shows respect for their ex-partner. The following are 7 strategies to resolving your child custody issues amicably.

Don’t Speak Ill of Your Ex

Statistics find that 50 percent of marriages will probably end in divorce. While that may be a sobering statement, there are ways you can learn to live with divorce. If a 50/50 parenting schedule is what you’re aiming for, the best start you can make is to not speak ill of your partner. They may have done things that warranted the failed marriage such as lie or cheat. But don’t want to make your children suffer. Your child could act out when they hear you speak ill of their parent. Instead, keep the feelings to yourself. If you need to vent, trying bending the ear of a friend, therapist or counselor to help you through your troubled thoughts.

Work with the Experts

There are numerous benefits to working with the professionals. According to Harshberger Law Firm LLC, their trusted team of experts will be able to fight for your child’s best interest because they are familiar with the laws. Their negotiating skills can also prove helpful when you’re emotionally drained from the uphill battle of dealing with an ex-spouse. If money is owed, your attorney will also be able to ensure that you get a sufficient and fair amount of spousal support. If you have questions simply click http://harshbergerlaw.com/child-custody for your free consultation.

Custody is All About the Children

Divorce may cause you to focus solely on your own needs. But when it comes to deciding on custody issues, it’s all about the children. Parents need to remember that both parties still need to do their duties raising the kids. If both parents are amicable in their efforts, the children have a better chance of coming out of the situation with less problems and animosity. After all, wouldn’t you like to give your child the best gift of growing up loved no matter where they reside?

Take a Hard Look at Your Schedule

Parents entering a divorce may want to make their ex suffer by asking for sole custody. But unless there is a real issue, you need to take a hard look at your schedule. If you travel for work or are busy taking care of an aging parent, sharing custody can prove helpful by allowing you time to handle other matters. It’s important to check your emotions at the door and negotiate custody based on facts and what’s best for the kids. If you’re unsure about putting together a calendar, there are sample custody schedules on the Internet that can help you.

Assess the Needs of Your Kids

You want to take your child’s age and schedule into account when determining fair child custody arrangements. Children who are infants and toddlers may find it too difficult to be shuffled back and forth. As your child gets older, you may be able to determine a more suitable arrangement such as every other weekend. If your kids are in school, you may also want to keep them with one parent during the week and every other weekend with the other.

Find a Respectful Way to Communicate

To ensure that your joint custody agreement works, you need to find a respectful way to communicate with your ex. Never tell your kids to relay messages back and forth. Instead, work out the problems amongst yourselves in-person. If you find it unbearable to see your ex, phone calls or a text can also prove helpful. If you can’t see eye-to-eye on an issue, you may need assistance. A mediator or attorney can help keep things on track if your ex decides to ignore the custody agreement.

Choose Your Battles Wisely

Parenting can be challenging on its own. Add a divorce, and you may have an even more difficult situation to deal with. You can reduce your number of battles with an ex by keeping the lines of communication open. If disagreements happen along the way, decide if the conflict is worth getting upset over. Things such as vacations, holidays, child rules and schools are all important decisions to discuss. Unless your child has a medical issue that is being ignored or they’re in danger, try to keep the dissension out of the courts.



When you’re going through a divorce, implementing the best child custody arrangements can be one of the most critical steps to smart parenting. Although you may want to do everything you can to punish your ex-spouse for the upheaval, putting the above strategies into play can provide a stable and healthy environment for your kids.





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